Is balancing everything everytime will work out?.........
haha... it seems like every time i only get to blog once a week.. i might think that it is due to lack of things to talk about... or sometime, lazy, tired, sad, emo, no feeling, noting to talk about.... so on.... haha..
i think i would just talk about something that happen lo.. haha..
last sat, same thing went for NDP training there... wow.. damn sian.. but then just nice i got 2 cadets that is not feeling well pei me.. haha.. because all of the school are having either camps or things that stop them from enjoying themselves.. and due to that, headache due to too much stress, work, not enough sleep... haizz.... then when start training, they start to pei mi.. haha. first thing is because they cant attend the parade, second, they come towards me is because, i am the medic for them, plus they know that i m a nurse...( a type of nurse that is not working but then got a practising cert with me..) just nice, we talk a lot.. although i think i talk a lot... (hopefully they don't mind) because most of the time, mouth seldom open due to lack of people to talk to... even with my ah bang, marcus, only use msn, type, lol not mic...
back to topic... at first we talk plus see the parade, G.O.H open fire for the 3 respecting fire. (i might be wrong. if can, correct me. thanks)then saw mr brown, a guy which talks about Singapore news? he is quite a funny guy. and record nice podcast (I'M A FAN OF HIS!!LOL). he was there wanted to shoot some videos for his blog... he actually wanted to take some girls guides for interview, but then end up they running around, so wanted to look for some here. bt sadly to say, the cadets were being ask to fall in at the time. so left me, and the 2 girls to take care of.. so i told the cadets, believe me, he is coming after you both liao... lol. indeed, mr brown went there and took interview from them... haha. but after that, i felt that there is something wrong going to happen. mr brown went after me, grab me, and then camera start rolling.. start askin me to answer some questions... so paisei lo... lol but the heng things is that they never post the videos on his blog.. lol
durning their break, some for the cadets which have camp, they asking me, why i didn't go for their camps?.. also asking me to go their camp for their camp night.. so i was thinking that maybe i should try asking their officer to see whether i can go and take a look.. so got a chance to go lo..
when the training ends, i wanted to go home and change, but the cadets asking me to follow them and go.. so i follow them lo.. haha it sounds like i anyhow easy to follow people around de.. haha
so went with them to the school for their camp night.. haha.
so i gt there abit too early, and i saw what happen there, like flag lowering, dinner,and then campfire.. haha
so anyway some people might be thinking that what do i mean on my title.... so here's is what i m going to say. durning the camps i saw things that can be commented on, quote and praise.. is like i suddenly think of whats going on in my old schools. how are they doing now? and also, asking myself, did i do something wrong or not? it was like, i did somethings like whats happening durning their camps.. i still can't believe, whats are the reason that we can't compare my school with others?what i scold might be too hard for them to take it.. but why other schools cadets can take it? tell the truth. i really kind of miss my way of guiding the cadets to learn from mistake...
why there is some people say that every kid s0 is the same, and mus be threats the same way as what other better kids do? and there is others that doesn't?
balancing? do we need to scold cadets (which done something wrong) to the max so they will listen? or should we slowly guide them, use the "love" teaching method to teach them? to me, i tried both... and found out. the 1st one has the most effect on them. and it usually work. but beware, negative things will happen to you sooner or later. which is, either teacher, or parents scold us for using that method.. or the cadets quit (and after that, teacher will start to nag at us for scolding them too much). should i say, that is the kind of "love teaching" we wanted to give them? we, the older generation had gotten training worst then we train them now.... complain? they wanted to protect the kids. so they complain, then why there isn't much people complain about the tougher training the garhmen give for guys? things are worst then we do. why not we are training for them in the future? haha
the second 1. nice at first. but worst later. they will listen to officer which use the second method with their own will. but people tend to find out, they climb to the top of their officers head. haiz.. then at that time,when they wanna use the other method, it will b no used le. because they wont care about it liao..
haha. it seems that they never look forward...why they never find out that after we scold them, whatever things they do, they will remember in the future? but then other way, they only remember for a few days then forget. haha..there is a third way...
and the third way is to combine... the second method is only can be to use for the first few days, then the 1st method will be the later part. which means balancing. it work more then the 1st 2 method.. but the teachers don't allow. cos they only us to teach with T.L.C...and thus. they only learn for the time being... after they quit or stop the class, they will forget it, like i say "i have return all the class that i learned, back to the teachers le." so i forget..
now the question comes into my mind, should i be fierce, loving, or balance?
another thing, when you have a girlfriends for guys, do you think maintaining a balancing of forgive, forget and sometimes tell them whats right or wrong is good?
haha.. i thing there might have a bunch of people think that you should never tell them that their are wrong, it will cause a world war there.. so here comes another question.. should you balance? haha..
i wanted a balance home with my bro. but i always didn't get the balance of T.L.C from my parents. they tend to scold me more often then my bro, which always cause the most trouble. or even all the trouble is he cause de. and i m the 1 that always get scolded for him.. they say that i m the big bro. i should guide him. come on, they gt no way to help him le. do you think i can help it? i was like thinking, should parents have a balance of T.L.C to their own family that have more than 2 kids at home? haha..
so does balance help? in everything or just to a minor stuff?
yesterday, have quite abit of fun, went out with my other friends for 1st aid help out... lol.. so long never went out for the damn whole day to enjoy myself... haha.. firstly went raffles place.. to witness an event, a emergence fire evacuation exercise.. wow.. so many people frm 4o plus story come down from that building.. haha.. worst of all, wen they are out, they started scatted around to smoke.. it seems like they don't even wanted to care about the things which is going on there.. haha.. after went to SNB to do my nursing cert.. when went to that building, i found out that they shifted to NKF.... make my wasted my trip to go SGH.. lol nvm but i did went there to do my cert.. the cert is lyk onli a piece of paper with a thin piece of plastic that cover the part.. haha but then is nice la.... now my wallet looks like so gay like that.. cbecause i never believe my wallet got a nursing cert in it... feel so gay... lol... but then i m not la... haha.
after went HQ to get a ride near my house so i can have a cheaper MRT ride back home. and also see kranji turb club. cos my friend got a duty there.. sunny ask me to take a look and see the place where the horse run.. cos he told me that they only allow age 21 and above to go in there... haha so i use that time to enjoy myself there before i go home... then at there, we saw star so close. so chio... lol my friends took a photo with her. wow what a nice full day i spend wit my friends... haha. today send some instructor off for OTC camp.. sian.. gona be so lonely this 4 days le.. haha.. till now, i have been on my com playin restaruant city on face book and that all...
To the instructor in OTC.... GOOD LUCK!!!!! and to all friends and whoever that sees my blog, try listen to mr brown podcast!!! its nice... visit the link below.... thanks... tomorrow will b another NDP training le... gud luck 2 all cadets that attend!!!
www.mrbrownshow.com
